Saturday, October 7, 2017

The walking tour to The Little Red Lighthouse

This Group Activity with the Temple Missionaries has been long in coming. Ron "discovered" this Little Red Lighthouse ( that sits under the George Washington Bridge) on his very first bike ride after he purchased his bike early in our Mission around April or May of 2016.  Having stopped to see it and read the marker at it's base--he also learned that there was a children's book written about the Lighthouse and the Bridge by Hildegard Swift entitled "The Little Red Lighthouse and the Great Gray Bridge". It is a delightful story of how the Lighthouse learned that no matter how small-- there is purpose for all--both big and small, in the grand design of Life. 
So we reasearched and bought some of those books for each family in our family and planned to take as many of those who came to visit as scheduling would allow--usually prefaced with a reading of the book--or at some time after the walk there.

Kate and Duke's family were the "first ones" that joined us in a "walk" to the Little Red Lighthouse
It was in late March 2017-- a brisk but beautiful day!!

  
Front to back:  
Mitchell, Mia, Millie (pink coat to the L) Kate (holding Miles) McKay and Max (blue coat on R)

Grammy (in the middle) surrounded by her "Grands"!! Great place to be!!

Sister Mumford (aka Grammy) and Elder Mumford (aka Papa)

The marker that briefly tells the "short story" of the Lighthouse

All of us together ( including Duke) 
with the Lighthouse on our Left and the GW Bridge on our Right)

Our next Family to visit was Hollie and Linc's--they came in July of 2017 
Grammy surrounded again by some precious Grands!


At the base of the Lighthouse 
L-R--Papa & Grammy Mumford, Anslea, Hattie, Hollie (holding Quincey Carol), Abram ( behind Hollie) Fielding and Linc 


Great shot of the Lighthouse and the Great Gray Bridge. 


There is no Beach or waterfront along this portion of the Hudson River, but  there are these huge rocks that Abram, Field, Linc, Hattie and Anslea found delightful  to skip rocks from and "watch me" jump!! (New Jersey is across the Hudson in the background). 


It turned out to be a delightful activity and we knew we wanted to share it with the Missionary Group . So we began our planning in earnest. We calendared it and actually " shared  and read" the book at our FHE with the Temple Missionaries on Sept 25th. And we "gathered in our Lobby" the morning of Oct 2 and took the Subway (A line--Express) up to 181st Street  stop and got off and began our "walk" down to the shore of the Hudson--where 
the "Great Gray Bridge passes over  the Little Red Lighthouse. 
It was a most beautiful fall day and there were almost 20 in our Group (we were so pleased at the interest!! )  

The book that really made the Little Red Lighthouse famous!! 


The path that leads into the Lighthouse 

 
Our friend, Elder SK Tan with Sister and Elder Mumford  on the left 

"Ye Elders of Israel"
Elders Mumford, Tan, DeBry and England

Our Missionary Group that participated in the "outing  of Oct 2, 2017 
L-R-- The Grays, the Schoenberger's, the Tans, Sisters Nabors, Brown & Miyashiro,
Back row  L-R-- the Mumfords, the Englands, the Heideman's and the Nixons 


Then on Sunday night, before our outing the next day--the Grays, who are from the Boise, Idaho area , found this article about a "Stonehenge" cropping of rocks--along the Hudson right in the very area  we were going. So--after we left the Little Red Lighthouse, we walked a very short distance--to this 
  Manhattan mystery: No stone unturned

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NEW YORK
They rise from the sand and shallows along the Hudson
River like a Stonehenge built to the scale of a Manhattan apartment: a tight gathering of figures, rock perched on rock, that appear to be marching in a stately procession toward the George Washington Bridge.
The elegant stacks, skillfully balanced without wires or adhesives, have amazed and bewildered hikers and cyclists since late July, when they began appearing south of the bridge, beside the Hudson River Greenway in Washington Heights. As word has spread, the collection has become a j Rorschach test for New Yorkers who make a special trip there and see in it what they will: a skyline, a chessboard, another of the many public art installations that dot the waterfront.
Strangest of all, the statues change – in size, shape and number – from one day to the next, growing and ebbing like the river tides. Sometimes there are none at all.
Last Sunday, their creator materialized, in a baseball cap, shorts and soggy sneakers, to scoop fresh rocks out of the murky water and dispel the mystery. He is Uliks Gryka, 33, a
lanky Albanian immigrant with no art training who goes by the more familiar variant of his given name: Ulysses.
Asked to describe his handiwork, he invoked another name out of myth. “The Sisyphus stones,” he said, a grin breaking out above his reddish goatee. “That’s what somebody called
them.”
The reason for their constant transformation, he explained, is not the assaults of wind or water, which never seem to trouble the neatly interlocking rocks. Someone keeps knocking them over – eight times, so far, in just seven weeks.
And Gryka keeps reassembling them into new forms.
He had arrived that morning at 11:30 by bicycle from his apartment in the North Riverdale neighborhood of the Bronx
to find the entire collection – a week’s effort – pulled down.
“I was angry,” he said. “They must have been big people to be able to move these rocks. They pushed over every single one, even the big, heavy bases.”
Then he slipped his earbuds back in and got to work. Three hours later he had finished a new cluster of towers – more than 35 in all. By week’s end, there were close to 100.
“When I started out, it was a small, shy exhibition,” Gryka said. “But it’s grown larger with each destruction. This has been a very perseverant work.”
Many of the people who stop to marvel liken his figures to cairns, piles of rock that have turned up around the world since prehistoric times to mark pathways, honor deities or commemorate the dead. (In fact, the monumental, mosaic-covered “Hell Gate Cairns,” by the artist Samantha Holmes, were installed along the Hudson near 66th Street after Gryka began; he learned of them only last week.) Others mention modern environmental artists, like Andy Goldsworthy, who create outdoors, using natural materials at hand.
“Goldsworthy, Noguchi, Giacometti,” Gryka rattled off the names his visitors drop. “I want to be extremely honest: I didn’t know who these people were until I went and Googled them.”
He thanks search engines and childhood earth-science
classes for an acquaintance with his materials. “Manhattan schist, composite rock, quartz,” he said. “There’s some
granite over there.”
But Gryka’s real passion is the personalities he discovers
once he has combined stones into a single statue. “All of them have something different, something particular. I can see traits.”
His father, a surveyor for bridge and building projects, kept beehives as a hobby before the family fled Albania’s civil unrest in the mid-1990s for Italy. Gryka, who speaks four languages, studied political science at the University of Milan, then came to the United States in 2007 with a green card he obtained in a visa lottery.
In New York, he became a U.S. citizen and earned a master’s degree in international affairs from the New School, but jobs in his field, conflict and security, have not been easy to come by. He worked as a server in restaurants, then quit in April to take a break from the stress and restart his job search.
On his daily runs down the river path, he began to notice
the jagged stones along the shore. “I came here to clear my mind and figure out where I am going,” said Gryka, who follows the teachings of Sufism, a mystical branch of Islam. “I started to move the rocks as a sort of healing practice.”

He made some stacks farther south, but soon came to favor the spot by the bridge, in Fort Washington Park, drawn in part by a fascination (fitting for someone named Ulysses) with borders and water crossings. One night, his darkened parade of silhouettes struck him as an image from Dante – “all the souls waiting on the Styx River for a boat to take them to the other side,” he said.
He toils on the site most days for at least a few hours, his earbuds piping a stream of Sufi chants.

Each new figure begins with a face. “First I find what looks like a head,” he said. “Then a hat. Every head needs a hat.” (Five minutes later, he spotted a man placing a pebble on top of a finished piece. “Someone added a hat!” Gryka exulted. “Good work.”)
Then he looks for a base and other parts, using sight, feel and instinct to find surfaces that will fit together. “You work with what’s around you. You study the top edge, and look for a rock that matches. It’s like a puzzle.”
On Sunday, Jessica Woods and her 8-year-old daughter, Aine, made a pilgrimage from their apartment at 148th Street and Riverside Drive, after a neighbor told them about the stones. Woods called out to Gryka: “Thank you! We’re so
grateful to you for this.”
“They’re magical – the patience and balance,” she added. “And then there’s the grace with which he’s handling how his creations were pushed over by vandals.” 

This is what the above article is referring to. Another very interesting 'discovery' just about 1/4 of a mile down from the Lighthouse. Being called "the Stonehenge of Manhattan" created by a man who calls himself, Ulysses. And he just happened to be there that day--repairing what " very unthoughtful people" keep knocking down 


Ulysses ( born in Albania but raised in Milano, Italia from age 2).
You can imagine how fun it was for Elder Mumford to use some of his Italian in speaking with him. Although Ulysses has very good English and delighted in talking with us. However, he was pretty busy--getting his Stonehenge put back together.

He uses no "glue or mortar" to stack these rocks. They are "naturally balanced"

Our Group with Ulysses in the front (kneeling--beside Pres Nixon) 

Elder Mumford talking with Ulysses

A pretty good pic of all the formations along this piece of the Hudson Shore

A beautiful pic of the GW Bridge as it spans the Hudson 

There were 2 more "components to our "Outing" on that day. After leaving the events down by the Hudson River--most of our Group went back up to Ft Washington Ave and walked to Bennett Park--where the "highest point on Manhattan" is found.  (It's kind of "deceptive" with all the buildings around it, towering over it)--but it's the "natural point" --

There’s an official plaque set into the rock, marking it as 265.05 feet above sea level (yes, that’s .05 feet, as in 3/4ths of an inch).

 So we "caught" some pics being "on top" 




After Bennett Park--we went to a favorite restaurant in Washington Heights--KISMAT-- where wonderful Eastern Indian cuisine was our bill of fare that day.  Simply delicious!!


On the path down to the Lighthouse--there's a path that leads off up into the trees --where a Revolutionary War "redoubt" was found and has been "sort of restored" as an Eagle Scout project

The part of our Group who ventured off to find the "redoubt" (pronounced ruh'dudt )

Climbing the "highest point" 



The whole day was absolutely wonderful--the walk , the weather, the Company, the history, the food. . . Thanks to ALL who came and made it so enjoyable!! We LOVE our Missionary Friends!!

Friday, October 6, 2017

General Conference was absolutely awe-inspiring!!

Aren't we so blessed to have Apostles and Prophets on the Earth to lead and guide us in these latter-days?! Hoping that you all had a chance to listen and/or watch General Conference this past weekend. It is always "hard" when our Prophet's health declines to the point where we don't see him as much ( if at all) as we are used to. But "We ever pray for you, our Prophet dear"! And wasn't that a "tender mercy" that Elder Hales was able to finally get release from his pain and suffering on Conference Sunday--and that Elder Russell M Nelson, Pres of the Quorum of the 12, could be there at the hospital at Elder Hales' passing.  The Lord is truly in the very details of our lives.
The Temple is always closed on General Conference Saturday--so we were able to have a very relaxing weekend as we watched both Saturday Sessions with and ate lunch in our friends, the Heideman's apartment on Saturday (they have a 60" TV in their apartment that their son-in-law bought for them!) so of course we're gonna go there!! I love to listen and take notes--it helps my mind stay focused. I don't know that I ever go back to those notes after a few days have passed and my post-Conference "resolutions" begin to wane; but I do know I get more from those messages as I write down things which "stir my heart". Then on Sunday, we just watched from our apartment with the Conference Sessions "streaming" from our computer onto the TV via HDMI cord. It was a glorious 2 days and I felt that Elder Neil L Andersen's talk was so tender in his references to Elder Hales- - from his talk--Elder Andersen shared that the First Presidency had told Elder Hales that he could give a brief message in the Sunday morning session of the Conference if his health permitte'd it. While his health did not permit it, he prepared a message which he did share with Elder Andersen  and Elder Andersen shared these 3 lines from his talk with the Conference Audience: (and as I re-read those lines I quickly realized that he was "preparing himself for what was imminent") in his   (Elder Hale's) next steps in life).
Quoting Elder Hales: “When we choose to have faith, we are prepared to stand in the presence of God. … After the Savior’s Crucifixion, He appeared only to those ‘who had been faithful in the testimony of [Him] while they lived in mortality.’ [D&C 138:12.] Those ‘who rejected the testimonies … of the … prophets [could not] behold [the Savior’s] presence, nor look upon his face.’ [D&C 138:21.] … Our faith prepares us to be in the presence of the Lord.” 
Elder Andersen also gave a few lines from some of his other fellow Apostles and their messages. Then he promised that as we listen, the messages we receive  of Conference "may be very literal or they may be customized just for us" personally. In a summarization of points of his talk, his words ring out that there is a treasure chest of heavenly direction awaiting our discovery in the messages of general conference. The test for each of us is how we respond to what we hear, what we read and what we feel! And then he encouraged us to heed the voice of the Lord through His Servants--take heed, take time to study And to follow them. He quoted Pres Monson's words from other Conferences--that are important for us now Then Elder Andersen closed with something that made me a little tear-eyed--he reiterated Pres  Momson's counsel:
 “Take the time to read the conference messages.”
“Ponder [them]. … I have found … that I gain even more from these inspired sermons when I study them in greater depth.” 
  And Pres Monson's words to us from his April 2017's General Conference message "My dear associates in the work of the Lord, I implore each of us to prayerfully study and ponder the Book of Mormon each day. As we do so, we will be in a position to hear the voice of the Spirit, to resist temptation, to overcome doubt and fear, and to receive heaven's help in our lives. . . ".

Now I wait patiently for the Ensign we lovingly refer to as "Conference Recap" and how we love to re-read and listen to the talks all over again.


Yet we are so blessed to have this inspiration and guidance from these modern-day Apostles and Prophets--due to technology--and already have access to their words and counsel thru digital means. This is truly a glorious time . So whether we read or listen on our "electronic devices" or wait for "hard copies"--I hope we can also use the messages from General Conference to bless our lives in the coming months. I know they are true and say, as did Elder Andersen, "I testify that in this conference we have heard the voice of the Lord".  Amen.

One more thing I would like to include here has come in an e-mail to me from one of my (our) Granddaughters, Millie June Mumford. It's apparently a little writing assignment that she did at school the first week of October--and it really touched my heart!! Here is the copy if it:




Thank you so much, Millie!! I really treasure that note and you and your Family's visit to NEW YORK  CITY last Spring!! It was so delightful!!
Thought I would include a few pics of the Activities she mentions here, as they must have been "extra-special" to her.
Here we are on the Bus taking us to the American Girl Cafe in Rockefellar Plaza in NYC

At our table at the Daisy Room of the American Girl Cafe. 
L to R--Mia and her American Girl  Companion doll, Millie and her Doll and Grammy Mumford
Plus--they each had a Mini American Doll that they could keep. What a FUN TEA-TIME !

See the "mint food" Millie so enjoyed! 

Outside "Ellen's Stardust Dinner" (that's bigger than a trailer) where we went inside and had dinner while "Singing Waiters/Waitresses" entertained and brought our food to our table(s) 

This pic and the one below are the trip to see "Statue of Liberty" on such a rainy cold day--everyone was glad to get back to our Apartment (hotel😉) to get warm and dry!! 


Such cute pics here and below of our "Friday Night Activity" at the Church next door to the Temple, where we all went to get some "energy out of us". 


Priceless memories of Millie June Mumford and her family (Duke & Kate and Max, McKay, Mitchell, Mia and even little Miles Mumford) and their trip over Spring Break 2017 to see Grammy and Papa Mumford--aka Elder and Sister Mumford as they served in the Manhattan New York Temple Mission. Oh how we loved it!! 


Monday, October 2, 2017

Welcome to the Schoenbergers--our newest Temple Missionary Couple

September 25, 2017, the Temple Missionaries along with part of the Temple Presc' gathered in Apt 4B (Pres and Sister Benches' lovely apartment) for dinner and FHE. Our purpose for this gathering was to officially "Welcome" Paul and Ellen Schoenbergers. Here is a brief Bio that was sent out to all Temple Missionaries just before this couple arrived.

Welcome to our new missionary couple, the Schoenbergers
Forty-seven years ago Paul Schoenberger, a returned missionary from the North German mission, met Eleanor Thompson at the Institute of Religion at Northern Arizona University.
"Ellen" joined the church at age 15, having been influenced  by friends who had earlier invited her to Primary activities. Following her graduation from college and marriage to Paul, she taught grades one and K in elementary school.
The couple moved to Tucson, Arizona after Paul began his career in law enforcement as a deputy sheriff for the Arizona State Patrol. After his retirement he worked  as a juvenile probation officer for 7 years.
Their home is in Gold Canyon, Arizona near their son and daughter and 8 grandchildren. For the past 11 years they have served as ordinance workers in the Mesa, Arizona Temple.

We had a lovely evening with an "authentic Chinese meal" prepared by Sister Hazel Tan ( and I am pretty sure Elder Tan helped) along with her Group A food committee. After dinner, the Schoenbergers each took a few minutes to "introduce" themselves and then some time was turned over to Barbara Heideman aNd myself to "read" the book about the Little Red Lighthouse, which is the focus of the next Missionary Group Activity on Monday, Oct 2, 2017. Fun evening!! 
Elder Paul and Sister Ellen Schoenberger

Missionary Group
Back L-R: Ron & Carol Mumford, Kathy Nabors, Delmar & Luann Gray, SK & Hazel Tan, 
Holly & Ralph Young, Deanna & Lynn DeBry, Kent & Barb Heideman, Jeanine & Spencer Brown
Front L-R: Pres Mark Bench & Sister Dorothy Bench, the Schoenbergers, 
Sister Pat Nixon & Pres Kem Nixon

The book we read--the Lighthouse and the Bridge are up along the Hudson River in the Washington Heights' area

We are so happy to have the Schoenbergers here--and we are "back up to speed;" with 2 full shifts of Temple Missionaries and it feels good!!